Parents are often the best educational
advocates for their children, especially children with a
learning disability. True advocacy is a largely positive
process, which should build on your child's strengths and
challenges. As your child's best advocate, you are in a
unique position to identify and implement positive
changes. The Coordinated Campaign for Learning
Disabilities (CCLD) has developed the following tips to
help parents champion their child.
1. Know
the rules
All public schools abide by specific
laws and regulations, which provide special services for
children with learning disabilities who qualify for such
services. The criteria for eligibility varies from state
to state, but all schools must adhere to a minimum
federal standard. To find out the laws in your state and
your rights as a parent, contact your local school
district office, or state Department of Education.
2. Get to know the people who make
decisions about your child's education
Connect with educators and
administrators in both casual and formal settings. Talk
with your child's teacher on a regular basis. If
possible, volunteer in the classroom and help out with
school functions. If you have concerns or problems that
a teacher can not or will not address, be willing to
follow the chain of command through the school, and if
necessary, to the district office. Remember that you as
a parent have the right to request that the school
evaluate your child if you think he or she may have a
learning disability. Be sure that your request is in
writing.
3. Keep records
Parents should maintain an organized
file of educational records and assessment information.
Take notes during telephone and face-to-face meetings,
and ask for people's full names and contact information
when communicating by phone or by email. In addition,
keeping less formal examples of children's academic
progress, such as homework papers, artwork, and
writings, may be useful in establishing patterns and
documenting both abilities and challenges.
4. Gather information
Read books and articles on learning,
attend conferences, and join a parent support group or
affiliate organization in your area. Get comfortable
with education acronyms and jargon. Ask professionals
lots of questions, and don't be afraid to ask for
clarification if their answers are confusing or
complicated.
5. Communicate effectively
Come to meetings prepared, and know
the specific outcomes you want. Be clear, calm and
direct when speaking and put things in writing whenever
possible. Listen, and take time to think about pertinent
information. Consider when documentation or data might
help your case, and present it in an orderly and
readable format. While assertiveness and persistence are
crucial, anger and aggressiveness can work against you
and can damage important relationships.
6. Know your child's strengths and
interests and share them with educators
By highlighting a struggling child's
capabilities and talents, you not only help
professionals know your child as a whole person, you can
also assist in identifying learning accommodations.
7. Emphasize solutions
While there are no miracle cures or
magic bullets for learning disabilities, it's important
to stress the positive, and to help identify ways to
improve your child's experience. Once appropriate
programs have been identified and agreed upon, make
every effort to encourage follow-through.
8. Focus on the big picture
Simply put, don't sweat the small
stuff. Knowing the specifics of a law may be important
on one level, but constantly arguing technicalities can
ultimately waste time and inhibit rapport. Try not to
take things personally, and always consider both sides
of the story. Details are important, but don't let them
get in the way of negotiating the best educational
experience for your child.
9. Involve your child in decision
making as early as you can
Learning disabilities are a lifelong
issue. Mastering self-advocacy skills is one of the keys
to becoming a successful adult. Resist the natural urge
to pave every road for your child, and respect and
support your child's need to take informed academic
risks.
Resources
LD Online Website:
http://www.ldonline.org
Coordinated Campaign for Learning
Disabilities, Micheline Kennedy Carter, (202) 326-8710 or
mcarter@ccmc.org
The International Dyslexia Association:
(410) 296-0232 or (800) ABCD123
National Center for Learning
Disabilities: (212) 545-7510
Division for Learning Disabilities,
Council for Exceptional Children (CEC): (800) 328-0272
Learning Disabilities Association of
America (LDA): (888) 300-6710
National Association of School
Psychologists: (301) 657-0270 or
http://www.naspweb.org
The Coordinated Campaign for Learning
Disabilities (CCLD) is a collaborative public awareness
effort of the Learning Disabilities Association of
America, The International Dyslexia Association, the
National Center for Learning Disabilities, the Division
for Learning Disabilities at the Council for Exceptional
Children, the Council for Learning Disabilities and the
Schwab Foundation for Learning and coordinated by the
Communications Consortium Media Center. CCLD is generously
supported by the Emily Hall Tremaine Foundation.